Young people will choose friends according to how the image or images obtained by him from others, regardless of whether young children really meet the image of others or not.
"The young man thought of himself as an important factor in a friendship. But sometimes these friendships can lead someone to a negative direction as male or female wild into a depression," said Selfhout Maarten, a Dutch researcher, as quoted by ScienceDaily, Friday (31/10/2009).
The study involved 205 students who were undergoing first-level courses, students are required to answer questions online during the 4th month. Researchers reveal the image of his friends is more important than the actual characters themselves.
Young people tend to find friends who like himself, like looking for similarities in personality. People who consider themselves to be friendly and open (Extrovert) will find a friend like this character. In addition to music factors also play an important role, people will tend to make friends with who have the same taste in music so they can share.
Selfhout not only investigate how the development of friendship, but also how it influences their own friendship to young people. It turned out that friendship has a different effect between men and women.
The research found that criminal or violent behavior in males increases when friends with people who have problems with behavior, because men are more likely to be affected and have a great sense of solidarity.
While women are more at risk of depression if you have a friendship with a low quality, because women tend to use the feelings in every respect.
However, these influences do not affect each other between men and women. And what about you? What was sought and found in your friendship?
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